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How to win an argument, using concession and avoiding conflict

By | October 19, 2009, 8:37 AM PDT

The best way to win an argument might be to concede.

In a new study (.pdf) published in Economic Inquiry, three economists explore the tipping point between conflict and dealmaking and conclude that a potential loser can use small concessions to successfully appease an expected winner.

But Michele Boldrin, David Levine and the late Jack Hirschleifer write that such negotiated concessions might not always work in conflict resolution — and, where “clear and specific inequalities” exist, appeasement can be dangerous.

The problem of “time consistency” lies at the heart of the paper’s findings: if a potential loser agrees to a concession, are there guarantees that more demands will not be made?

“In the baseline case of common beliefs and identical time preferences, if the size of indivisibility is sufficiently small, conflict can always be avoided by a series of small concessions, with both parties recognizing that there will be additional concessions in the future.”

In other words, appeasement may be the best way to avoid losing an argument — particularly since, in the scope of world politics, warfare may not guarantee that each side is any closer to what they originally wanted.

But appeasement can be dangerous if conflict is itself the goal for one party, and it’s only avoidable if both parties prefer peace, the authors write.

So what about “inevitable conflict”? That comes into play when a perceived winner is more impatient than a likely loser, according to the study.

The bottom line: when you’re at the negotiation table, make sure the other side is prepared to actually negotiate.

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RE: How to win an argument, using concession and avoiding conflict
Argument happens between parties of roughly equal power. Our world has such massive power differences in existence, it is nearly fruitless to talk about arguments and conceding. Look closely and you would find no, yes NO competition at all, anywhere. Everywhere the cuts are predecided or to be more accurate, statistically predecided so as not to appear predecided. Whatever argument or competition still takes place does not have any real bearing on events. These might seem to be sweeping statements but look at things from the opposite point of view and you yourself might find more consistencies without anyone having to convince you.
Posted by amolpatil2k
21st Oct 2009
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