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Q&A: Why you have fewer friends than your friends do on Facebook

By | October 5, 2012, 5:15 AM PDT

With its one billion user mark hit yesterday, Facebook is closer to its mission of making the world more connected. And it appears to be literally changing the long-held idea of six degrees of separation, which states that everyone is no more than six steps from any other person on Earth. Researchers have found that within the Facebook community, that key number shrinks to just over four steps. This is just one finding of many coming out of an enormous study of 721 million active users on Facebook led by a group at Cornell University in collaboration with Facebook’s Data Science team. With such an embarrassment of social connection riches, the researchers have uncovered fascinating patterns and quirks of human and social behavior.

If you’ve felt not-as-popular as your friends on Facebook, you are right. Typically your friends will have about three times as many friends as you. Why? Well it has to do with math and statistics, and the research teams have proven that it plays out consistently within the Facebook network.

SmartPlanet spoke with Johan Ugander, a PhD candidate at Cornell’s Center for Applied Mathematics, and asked him to explain this friendship paradox, as well as reveal other findings about our social natures from this massive study.

SmartPlanet: One of the fascinating things is that, and you got this from the Facebook data, if all the people on a four-person list came from separate social groups (eg, from your high school, or work, or family) then the likelihood of you being influenced by those people is more than twice as likely than if all the people were from the same social group (eg, all co-workers.)

Johan Ugander: Right. Facebook promises this opportunity in resolving incredibly data demanding questions in the social sciences. So we studied Facebook’s data and how millions of individuals are making decisions about joining Facebook.

And you found a very interesting quality of social decision-making, right?

Yes, we specifically looked at the invitation mechanism. Say you’re invited to Facebook, and they show you a number of different faces, faces of people already on Facebook. And the thing that really surprised us was that the dominant driving force was not how many unique social contacts that invited you.

It was some quality of those social contacts?

We found is that if there are two people that are part of this invitation community, and if those two people come from different social contexts, you’re fifty percent more likely to accept the invitation than if they’re from the same context.

So you mean that if two people are in the welcome invite to Facebook and one is from your high school context and the other is a co-worker you are twice as likely to join than if those two people were both family members?

Right. The basic motivation of this is that people that are from the same context are essentially redundant. So if your brother and sister are both recommending you a book, you don’t really take them as independent sources of information. But if your co-worker and your siblings recommend you a book, that’s a much stronger recommendation, because now it’s sort of reached you from two independent directions.

Fascinating. What are the practical implications of this?

With health practices, researchers are trying to figure out how to convince people to start using good health practices. Another obvious application is to help business spread ideas. And a recent study where the Facebook team studied the spread of voter participation, and it also showed that there is a big social component to voting.

Can you talk a bit more about Facebook’s research teams and what their motivations are?

Facebook has a research group called the Data Science team that helps to guide the product to its next levels. The Science Team has really grown since 2010.

And you started working with them in 2010 right?

One of the big papers that we put out in 2010 is this large-scale study where we asked a wide range of empirical questions about Facebook as a social network.

We were sitting on the largest social network data set, this treasure trove of data. So we asked a lot of the same questions social researchers have asked before, but now we were asking at a Facebook scale.

And what was one of those questions?

Well it has to do with the famous notion of six degrees of separation. With Facebook we have something resembling the complete graphic world, we have ten percent of the world’s population.   So how far apart are people?  Is it six degrees?

And was it?

No. In fact the average distance between any two people on Facebook was 4.74. But also we found these results had been shrinking over the the past three years, since 2007, the average distance between two people has been shrinking. This is related to Facebook’s mission of making the world more open and connected. A lot of people at Facebook were happy to see this.

Yes, Facebook has actually making the world smaller, by allowing relationships to flourish online, globally.

Another question that we wanted to ask was this notion of your friends always have more friends than you.

Right. That is fascinating, that no matter what, on Facebook your friends on average, will always have more friends than you have. It might seem depressing.

It’s called the “friendship paradox”. If you look across your friends, surprisingly often you have fewer friends than your friends do. And this is derived from a mathematical theorem.

And you found that the math worked in reality?

Yes we found that 93 percent of Facebook users have fewer friends than their friends. So it’s a mathematical fact, not something one should be depressed about.

Consider this metaphor: It happens for the same reason that when you go to the gym, you see only the fit people, and when you look at your friends on Facebook you see only people who are social.

You mentioned that Facebook users have an average number of 190 friends. But their friends average 635 friends. Now, when you say their friends average, are you talking about their total number of friends or are you talking about each individual friend added up? This is where it gets tricky.

Exactly, this is where it gets tricky. If you select a person at random and you get an average number of friends at 190. But if you look at a random friend of a random user, you’re biasing your selection towards people who have a lot of friends. You’re much more likely to hop to somebody who has a lot of paths leading to them. Somebody who has ten thousand friends is going to show up much more in your sample than somebody who only has two friends.

The gym metaphor helps here.

Right,  if you go to the gym you’re only seeing the people who go to the gym often. The couch potatoes are only going to the gym once a month, so on your average visit you’re not going to see them, whereas you’re going to see the person who’s there everyday.  And you might feel bad about your physique.

What would be a practical implication for the “friendship paradox”?

Well for Facebook there are implications. These factors of friends grow very quickly. Take a person with a 100 friends, and you think OK, their friends have about a hundred friends each, so you’d expect them to have 10,000 friends of friends, which is 100 x 100. But in reality a person with a hundred friends has twenty-seven thousand friends of friends, close to three times more than you would expect. This paper provided Facebook’s engineering people information on how some of these properties behave on Facebook.

What are Facebook’s goals with this research arm?

The Data Science team has an ambition to do a complete overhaul of these questions in social science and social psychology because it has a huge treasure trove of data. The research is useful for the design of products and recommendations that Facebook offers.

But on the academic side, the social science hypotheses that have been around for decades we can now get numbers for. And there’s a long list of studies that we’d like to run.

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Christie Nicholson

About Christie Nicholson

Christie Nicholson is a contributing writer for SmartPlanet.

Christie Nicholson

Christie Nicholson

Contributing Writer

Christie Nicholson produces and hosts Scientific American's podcasts 60-Second Mind and 60-Second Science and is an on-air contributor for Slate, Babelgum, Scientific American, Discovery Channel and Science Channel. She has spoken at MIT/Stanford VLAB, SXSW Interactive, the National Science Foundation, the National Research Council, the Space Studies Board and Brookhaven National Laboratory. She holds degrees from the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism and Dalhousie University in Canada. She is based in New York.

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Real Friends in one hand
Your real-world friends are counted on the fingers on your hand, not on Facebook which is full of faux-friends, and a corporation that will sell your granny to grub a penny on a deal.
Posted by neil.postlethwaite@...
Updated - 5th Oct
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You are Incorrect
But keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better.
Absolutes are almost Always wrong.
Posted by Prime Waverider
Updated - 5th Oct
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Absolutely
"Absolutes are almost Always wrong"

Absolutely wink

Hope you are happy with your 10,000 sham friends on Facebook.
Posted by neil.postlethwaite@...
Updated - 5th Oct
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Exactly
Agree 100%.
FB is not about "friends"; it's about an advertising vector.
Capiche?
Posted by da philster
5th Oct
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BOO Facebook
I agree with Neil. I dropped facebook a few months ago after reading about some of there policies concerning privacy and them using my private information. If more people knew what was going on behind the scenes facebook and others like it would never reach a billion.
Posted by Rovanton
5th Oct
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How sad these artificle lives
Just two comments, how sad a society when popularity or whatever is measured by imaginary friends by folks so desperate to be noticed. How dangerous is this massive collection of data to us all?
Posted by hmmmmm!
5th Oct
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MS and Klout
I was most amused with Microsoft buying into Klout - Trash Mag popularity bottom grubbing rubbish. Justin Beiber has more Klout than Barak Obama - really !!!
Posted by neil.postlethwaite@...
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Woeful amount of info
Do you have more data or a link to that data?
Posted by Prime Waverider
5th Oct
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Yes, my friends have more friends than I do
and honestly I don't give a damn. I'm an introvert primarily. I agree with neil.postlethwaite above... The real-world friends you have can likely be counted on the fingers of one hand, maybe two. If you TRULY have more... Then you are blessed and be happy. But I doubt that one of those people who is is really going to decry neil's comment.

The majority of the mass-amounts of 'friends' on FB probably don't really even know or care you exist. You're nothing but a picture and a name that they can bolster a game with, or maybe once put up a cool photo. Facebook promotes the 'look at me' mentality that many people should have gotten over as kids (barring of course those who go in to theater, or politics), and so the more people looking at us, the better. But saying that all of those 'friends' on facebook are TRUE and REAL friends, would be like a self-involved actor who thinks that EVERYONE in the theater of every show knows and cares about him or her personally. They don't.

Oh, and as to my having fewer friends on FB than my friends. VERY true. I don't use that social media brain-waster.
Posted by jonrosen
Updated - 5th Oct
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Fewer Friends than my Friends have? GOOD!!!
First of all, nobody gets friended by me unless I actually know them.
Which means I don't have a single unknown-faced sycophant in the bunch.
Just because you made a comment on a public posting doesn't mean you're my friend; just that you're an information customer of mine. "Thank you very much for your comments, kind or otherwise."
Secondly, I never friend someone unless I want to talk to them. I've gotten more than my share of friend requests from people who have nothing I want to hear from or talk to. Paying for college bills for two boys certainly doesn't leave any extra for me to be a "sugar daddy". even supposing my wife would let me. lol.
Posted by Dr_Zinj
5th Oct
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Only family and friends
I agree. I only friend people I know personally and like. The only complaint I have is that I would like to section them off into groups like Google+ does with its circles. But if I don't know and like you, I will not friend you on Facebook.
Posted by GraceLove
Updated - 5th Oct
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Grammar
Please ask your editor to check your grammar before posting.
Posted by papatango99
5th Oct
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Grammer expert bastard!
I notice you only typed a short sentence. Afraid you'll make a mistake SOB?
Posted by Rovanton
Updated - 5th Oct
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Who's the bastard here?
Such nastiness is uncalled for. pnylund@... has a valid point. And he was polite with his request. Grammar mistakes can be forgiven in the comments section, but the author should have the article proofread and grammar and spelling mistakes corrected. After all, she (in this case) is supposed to be a professional.

Lord knows, I make grammar and spelling mistakes too. I try to proofread my comments before hitting "submit", but sometimes they still get through. I'm pretty good at fat-fingering, too.
Posted by mudpuppy1
5th Oct
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"Friends"
The word "friend" has been so cheapened in this modern age. Even more so with Facebook and other similar sites.

A friend is someone you go hunting with. Someone you go fishing and camping with. Someone you spend time with (outside of work and offline). Someone you go to the park with, etc. I suppose you can develop a long-distance relationship (not necessarily romantic), but it won't realize it's full potential until you actually meet in person.

You will most likely have only a few friends in your life. You will have many acquaintances. Most of the "friends" on Facebook fall into that second category. Nothing wrong with that, that's just the way it is.

I suppose an "acquaintance" request just doesn't sound as social. happy

neil.postlethwaite@... is correct.

The very premise of this article makes no sense to me. Say you are my "friend" on Facebook. That means you have more "friends" than I. I am also your "friend" on Facebook. That means I have more "friends' than you. Sounds like that "Grandfather Paradox" time travel stories like to mention.

By the way, I dumped my Facebook account a couple of years ago and have not regretted it.
Posted by mudpuppy1
Updated - 5th Oct
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Frienship as understood nowadays
Shall we call it "global" friendship? The worst of friendships? Friendship is not for numbers Dr Milgram, the famous social psycologist, a great friend of the family did not intend his research to be considered as a way of making friends. He had to few to know that friends are few but the most exclusive, important kind of relationship in humans. My feeling is that his research had to do with global communication, and statistics proved correct. Facebook is only proving that friendship is not for the crowds. In a way it is for me a way of ignoring the important and and not having to get involved totally with people. It makes me think of Einstein; He did not have to go to prove his theory. He knew better. Only geniuses are creative. By the way, do you realize that friends GET TOGETHER mostly because they don't like to talk "invisibly"? And they write emails if they don't "have the time" to write letters, long letter by hand...Hurrah for friendship!
Forgive my mistakes! if any.
Phasebo
Posted by abliffeld07
6th Oct
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We should just stop saying 'Friends'.
Since people create meaning through usage, people should just call these FaceBook Friends 'contacts' or ' aquaintances' and not let our language be muddled by faddish internet platforms. Of course, it will all work out anyway as people consider context.
Posted by hellospam9
5th Oct
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Unless they are actually your friends
I have no Facebook "contacts" or "aquaintances" because I only friend people I actually know, like, and wish to keep in touch with. "Friends" certainly describes my Facebook friends.
Posted by CLS9
8th Oct
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who needs enemies?
to start off, i don't care how popular they feel; the idea of social networks is tantamount fo the old clothes line (good for gossiping). albeit, there is use in these social networks. one i can think of is as some sort of early warning system when there's a problem and much of the rest of it is no more than jibber-jabber. how would these people be my friends with the exception of the few who were my friends pre-facebook? the others are about as much my friends as those who travel on the subway with me. we're going in the same direction with varying deboarding and independent of one another.
Posted by Sunon@...
6th Oct
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armageddon?
is there a social networking armageddon brewing?
i posted yesterday expecting a rebuttal concerning my being negative but after trolling the comments it seems facebook et al are on the precipice. or is it only an illusion from where i'm standing?
Posted by Sunon@...
7th Oct
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It's not important.
Facebook is hyped up to seem important than it really is. It has a few legitimate uses for clients but is mainly a money making scheme and information collection tool, as well as a mill from which propspective employers and other nosy people could try to assemble an in absentia psychological profile. I agree with some here that most of the "friends" on facebook are merely acquaintances and "fair weather friends" and would not do a "friends' duty" if it cost them anything substantial.
Posted by opcom
15th Oct
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